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For many parents, the most important thing for their children is that they are thriving. As a parent, seeing your kid’s face light up with a smile can make all the difference in your day.
Children show their emotions in many ways. How they navigate their feelings during childhood can have a lasting impact on their adulthood. But how can you tell what’s going on in your child’s inner world? According to Parents, kids show emotions like joy in a number of ways.
How to Tell If Your Child is Happy
While it’s easy to tell if your baby is happy amid laughs and squeals — with children it can get trickier. As your child grows up, their feelings become more complex and difficult to identify.
One of the biggest ways to tell your child is happy is through their body language and expression. “Happiness shows up as a child smiling and showing open body language,” Dr. Ariana Hoet, executive clinical director at The Kids Mental Health Foundation and a pediatric psychologist at Nationwide Children’s Hospital, tells Parents.
However, it’s unrealistic to expect kids to feel joyful all the time. In fact, a child’s overall happiness is dependent on other factors including the ability to feel safe, loved, and free to be who they are. “It’s not about being constantly happy, but rather about feeling stable, curious, and able to experience and express a wide range of emotions in a supportive environment,” Dr. Harshasu Barot, a child psychiatrist at Hackensack Meridian Health, explains.
Other signs that your child is happy include positive relationships with friends and family, which impact their overall wellbeing. Happy kids also seek affection and connection. Children who feel secure and loved often show it by being physically affectionate or verbally warm, through hugs and kind comments. Displaying qualities like confidence and independence, demonstrating gratitude, positivity, and hopefulness are also signs your child is content.
Signs Your Child Needs a Therapist
While children may feel joyful at times, that’s not always the case, and it’s important to pay attention to any signals that they’re struggling. According to the Cleveland Clinic, struggles that span multiple areas of their life, including at home and at school, may be a red flag for mental health problems.
Shifts in sleep, hygiene, and appetite can be a gentle signal that your child may be facing emotional challenges. If your child is pulling away and isolating themselves from family and friends, has low self-esteem, worries uncontrollably, and makes distressing comments about themselves it may indicate something serious. Engaging in attention-seeking behavior, self-destructive actions, and self-harm, are also telltale signs they may need help.
Furthermore, look out for aggression that seems unusual. While a little rebellion is common as children grow up, a persistent short-fuse or rapid temper, which results in fighting or threatening other people, including yourself, is a major sign that something more serious is going on.
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How Parents Can Support Their Child’s Mental Health
While children can encounter big emotions, there are ways you can help and better their lives. Kristen Eastman, a psychologist, tells Cleveland Clinic, rather than jump to problem-solving amid worrying behavior, it’s crucial to first emotionally validate your child’s experience. She recommends using phrases including “I see this is really hard for you,” or “I notice you’ve been struggling lately.”
Dr. Eastman also recommends bringing up the topic of therapy with your child’s pediatrician when necessary. She says pediatricians can help identify what’s normal and refer your child to the right counselor.
Other ways you can help your child include limiting their screen time, especially social media HuffPost reports. This can help your child’s mental health, since kids look for validation from their peers on social media platforms, and can feel isolated or rejected if they don’t receive it.
While mental health challenges are real, with compassion and support, parents and caregivers can make a big difference. Through proactive steps like observing your child’s emotions, validating their feelings, and limiting screen time, you can have a positive impact on their mental health.
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